Integrity Matters
                        July 25, 2007
                      Lawmakers should take lessons in  civility
                       Question:  (E-302)
Question:  (E-302) 
                      What has  happened to civility? July 15 on Tim Russert's "Meet the Press"  program, Sens. Lindsay Graham and Jim Webb erupted in abrasive arguments  regarding the ongoing Iraq  war. Is the U.S. Senate having a collective meltdown?
                      Response:
                      No, even  though the public sees an increasing amount of uncivil behavior among some  members of Congress, it's too soon to conclude that civility is dead. But  politicians who justify playing the "gotcha' game" - fueling partisan  sniping with vicious personal attacks - should not be re-elected.
                      Macho bullying has  "leapfrogged" from little boys on grade school playgrounds to  corporate boardrooms and the hallowed halls of government, involving both men  and women. Mean-streets trash talk has sullied Main Street. Gross four-letter words and  filthy gestures, once the out-of-bounds-behaviors of the crude, criminal and  uneducated are now exhibited indiscriminately by elected representatives,  sports stars, corporate executives and even candidates for the highest of  offices. Civility must be restored, everywhere. 
                      Until graciousness retakes center  stage, society is at risk of losing its soul. Competent leaders can disagree,  even strongly, without resorting to personal attacks. 
                      Knowledgeable students of the  political process suggest that the 2008 presidential election will be decided  by voters in Ohio and Florida. Assuming the Blue States stay blue  and the Red States stay red, which is plausible, then the battle will be won in  two "as-yet-undecided" states. If this turns out to be true, then is  the multibillion-dollar presidential campaign a charade for the voters in the  other 48 states? 
                      In spite of low approval ratings  for the current president, members of Congress have earned even lower scores.  And, if history serves as any indicator, perhaps 90 percent of those now in  Congress will be re-elected, continuing the same stifling, strident, immobilizing  behavior in Washington.  Gridlock will flourish while unrepentant, re-elected officials fiddle (with our  future) while Rome  burns (in pork-barrel legislation and ever fatter rewards for the political  elite). What might motivate rude elected representatives to be more civil? 
                      Are you willing to make interpersonal integrity,  including character and graciousness, a key factor in determining who gets your  vote? Candidates repeatedly exhibiting inappropriate behavior (rude, crude or  socially unacceptable) should be defeated and encouraged to enter rehab so they  can focus on how they live and work with others. Integrity matters.